It is the last day of National Infertility Awareness Week. I have been so inspired by all of the messages, videos, pictures, and stories everyone has shared. The biggest thing that keeps coming to my mind is this quote:
“She remembered who she was and the game changed.”
Who I am is NOT my challenges and trials. It is not my infertility. It is not my surgeries that have left me scarred. It is not my multiple pregnancy losses. It is not my PTSD and anxiety.
I am a wife, and a mother to 2 gorgeous children & 4 angel babies. I am a daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. I am so super loyal. I love deeply. I am talented. I am a cake baker. I am a writer and speaker. I love connecting with people. I have value and matter. I am a daughter of God who has a perfect purpose for me.
I love that there was an opportunity to #FlipTheScript this week on infertility. We are all fighting tough battles, but we are stronger.
Who are you?! Leave a comment below!!!
Flip the Script - National Infertility Awareness Week
This week is National Infertility Awareness Week. Because of my second ectopic pregnancy in January, it is still surreal that I am struggling with infertility, specifically secondary infertility. After having 2 healthy babies I never thought this would be my reality. I am so grateful for my kids, and I still mourn for the babies that we have lost.
1 in 8 couples are affected by infertility. Chances are that you or someone you know is struggling. So why don’t we talk about it more? Why are so many women and couples suffering alone silently? Why is there so much shame surrounding infertility? This week gives an opportunity to break down the stigma and barriers surrounding infertility.
Infertility is an emotional rollercoaster. It is full of heartbreak, shattered dreams, and lost expectations. Your sense of self-worth is shattered while anxiety, depression, grief, and loneliness set in.
“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” -Brené Brown
This week I am going to try and be vulnerable by owning my story. The last 2 years, and especially these past few months have been so difficult and dark. I have sobbed from the depths of my broken soul. But, I have also felt the power of letting light in and putting my broken pieces back together. My hope is that by sharing my story I will find more meaning and purpose in it and that we can all support each other.
I encourage you this week to share your story of infertility and read others. Support those around you who are struggling with infertility. Let’s #FlipTheScript of infertility and bring each other into the light. I will also be sharing facts about infertility, resources, brave stories from other women, and have a fun giveaway starting tomorrow. Tag your friends below that might benefit from this strong community. 💪🏻💕